By John Gray
-The most common way women unknowingly starts arguments is not being direct to share their feelings.-
Just as women need validation, men need approval. The more a man loves a woman the more he needs for approval. It is always there in the beginning of a relationship. Either she gives him the message that she approves him or he feels confident that he can win her approval. In either case the approval present.
Even if a woman has been wounded by the other men or her father, she will still give her approval in the beginning of a relationship. She may feel " He is a special man, not like others I have known."
A woman withdrawing that approval is particularly painful to a man. Women are generally oblivious of how they pull it away, they feel very justified in doing so. A reason for this insensitivity is that women really are unaware of how significant approval is for men.
Adapted from: Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
~It is unique when two different people from different planet met~